RETHINK: Mindset Shifts to Let Go of Limiting Beliefs
The start of a new year often brings a sense of hope and possibility. Yet, even as we set new goals, old mindsets can hold us back. Therefore, as part of embracing the power of RE, I’m focusing on how we can Rethink—challenging unhelpful beliefs and adopting fresh perspectives that move us forward.
Have you ever thought, “I can’t do this” or “This is just the way I am”? These limiting beliefs may feel like truth, but they’re often just the stories we’ve told ourselves over time. The good news? You can rewrite the narrative.
The Impact of Mindset Shifts
Mindset plays a significant role in shaping our actions and outcomes. Research by psychologist Carol Dweck highlights the importance of a growth mindset—believing you can develop abilities with effort. This belief fosters resilience, adaptability, and success, even when facing challenges.
By rethinking limiting beliefs, we can unlock the potential you didn’t even realize you had. Imagine the possibilities if, instead of “I’m not good at this,” you thought, “I’m still learning, and I’ll improve with practice.”
I experienced this firsthand. For years, I held the belief that white male leaders would prefer a white male or white female coach rather than me, a Black woman. This mindset was rooted in my past experiences in predominantly white corporate environments. But, as I worked with clients, I realized this belief didn’t reflect reality. Many white male leaders sought me out because of my executive background and unique perspective. Replacing my self-limiting belief with an empowering one—that I can be an excellent coach for any leader—was transformative.
Shifting Your Mindset Made Simple
Mindset shifts can feel daunting, but breaking them into simple, actionable statements makes them easier to embrace. To truly rethink your beliefs, start by recognizing the unhelpful thoughts holding you back and replacing them with more empowering perspectives.
Below are straightforward examples to help you make those shifts:
- Instead of: I can’t do this. Try: I’ll figure it out step by step.
- Instead of: I’m not good at this. Try: I’m learning, and that’s enough for now.
- Instead of: Failure means I’m not good enough. Try: Failure is how I grow and improve.
- Instead of: Things are out of my hands. Try: I have choices, even if they’re small ones.
- Instead of: I can’t handle change. Try: Change is uncomfortable, but it’s how I evolve.
- Instead of: I feel stuck where I am. Try: I have the power to take one small step forward today.
- Instead of: Success is about what I achieve. Try: Success is about who I become and my impact.
Shifting your mindset takes practice, but even small changes in your thought patterns can lead to significant results. With each shift, you build momentum. And every new belief creates a ripple effect, transforming how you approach challenges and opportunities.
Steps to Rethink and Rewrite Your Narrative
1. Identify limiting beliefs. Pay attention to recurring negative thoughts. Write them down so you can confront them directly.
2. Challenge the belief. Ask yourself, Is this true? And look for evidence to the contrary.
3. Replace it with something empowering. Reframe the belief into one that supports growth, learning, or positivity.
4. Practice self-compassion. Changing your mindset is a journey. Be kind to yourself as you work through it.
Embrace the Power of Rethinking
Rethinking isn’t just about discarding what doesn’t work—it’s about creating space for what does. By letting go of limiting beliefs and adopting a growth mindset, you can approach opportunities with greater confidence, clarity, and purpose.
Why not rethink what’s possible and make 2025 the year of transformation?
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Lisa L. Baker is a professional life coach, career strategist, and keynote speaker. Lisa is the founder of Ascentim – a Maryland-based coaching practice that utilizes a unique G.R.O.W. process to help clients gain clarity, realize new possibilities, overcome obstacles, and win at life. Lisa shows high-performing professionals how to Level Up and Live the Life of Their Dreams.